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Everyone should have a sex playlist.

It’s called being prepared, people!!

I was on Snapchat the other day, and they had an article called something like “Guys Need to Stop Doing THIS During Hookups.” I was like: is it going for second base after five seconds? Is it shoving their tongue down your throat so far you might choke? No. It was having a sex playlist?!

It bugs me that Snapchat has no comment function on things like that, because I would have loved to see what people think about this. Personally, I have two questions. The first is, why does this author think only guys are playing music during sex? In doing research for this post, I found magazine articles in several girly magazines about songs to have sex to. I could be wrong, and I’m sure you guys will tell me, but I don’t think this is really a gender issue. My gut is telling me this author wanted to write an article that would get people talking, regardless of the level of truth.

The second question I have is simply…what the heck is wrong with a sex playlist?? I don’t know why, but when I’m listening to music, I spend a decent amount of time thinking about whether the songs I’m listening to would be good to do the deed to. And in every movie since the beginning of time, when the token couple is about to do it, they put on music. I’ve been interested in writing this post for a long time, but this solidified my ~desire~

So here we all are, reading my sex playlist.

Okay, if I’m being honest, I made this just for you guys. I didn’t just have a sex playlist chillin’ in my phone, waiting for an opportunity to show off it’s awesomeness. I like to be prepared, but I haven’t reached that level yet. But now that it’s made, I strongly believe that the next person I do it with might stop in the middle just to tell me that the person who wrote that Snapchat article clearly just needs a playlist like mine. I mean, I have songs for every occasion. Some of these are super raunchy, like Pony by Ginuwine. Some are sultry, like Burning Desire by Lana Del Rey. A few are sweet and loving, like Adore You by Miley Cyrus, and I even have a few fun and flirty ones like Straight Up and Down by Bruno Mars. You are sure to find something you like on this list! Happy listening 😉

Oh! And don’t forget to scroll all the way to the bottom for a great infographic that you can pin right to Pinterest!


69 Songs For Your Sex Playlist

 This is four hours worth of music. Don’t try to get through it all in one night 😉

1 . Burning Desire Lana Del Rey

“Your hands are on my hips, your name is on my lips, over over again like my only prayer.”

2. Child’s Play Drake

“This is not a fairy tale I already know how you like it.”

3. Dress Taylor Swift

“Say my name and everything just stops. I don’t want ya like a best friend. Only bought this dress so you could take it off, take it off, off, off.

4. Drunk in Love Beyonce

“Foreplay in the foyer, f*cked up my Warhol. Slid the panties right to the side, ain’t got the time to take drawers off”

5. Pillow Talk Zayn

“A place that is so pure, so dirty and raw. In the bed all day, bed all day, bed all day, f*cking and fighting on.”

6. Good for You Selena Gomez

“Gonna wear that dress you like, skin tight. Doin’ my hair up real real nice, and syncopate my skin to how you’re breathing.”

7. Close Nick Jonas and Tove Lo

“Space was just a word made up by someone who’s afraid to get too close.”

8. Down Marian Hill

“You know we could put ’em all to shame, now isn’t the time to play it safe. Isn’t this the reason why you came? So baby don’t you let it go to waste.”

9. Retrograde James Blake

“Suddenly I’m hit. It’s the starkness of the dawn, and all your friends are gone. And your friends won’t come, so show me where you fit.”


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10. You Can Be The Boss Lana Del Rey

“He has a white corvette like I want it. A fire in his eyes, no I saw it. He’s bleeding from his brain and his wallet. He’s sick and he’s taken but honest…”

11. Company Drake

“I need a girl who gon’ love me, I need a girl who gon’ trust me. Someone to f*ck me, someone to make me feel lucky.”

12. Partition Beyonce

“Took 45 minutes to get all dressed up, we ain’t even gonna make it to this club. Now my mascara running, red lipstick smudged.”

13. Or Nah (Remix) Ty Dolla $ign, DJ Mustard, The Weeknd, Wiz Khalifa

“Do you like the way I flick my tongue or nah? You can ride my face until you drippin c*m.”

14. Skin Rihanna

“Why yo standing over there with ya clothes on? Baby strip it down for me, go on take em off.”

15. Earned It the Weeknd

“You make it look like it’s magic, cause I see nobody, nobody but you, you, you.”

16. National Anthem Lana Del Rey

“He says to be cool but, I don’t know how yet. Wind in my hair, hand on the back of my neck. I said ‘can we party later on?’ He said yes, yes, yes.”

17. T.I.O. Zayn

“Push me up against the wall. Don’t take it easy, you like it hard like me. It’s what you need.”

18. Hands to Myself Selena Gomez

“Can’t keep my hands to myself, no matter how hard I’m trying to.”

19. Madonna Drake

I don’t know if you know but I know who you are. You could be big as Madonna just get in the car and let’s touch the road.”


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20. No Angel Beyonce

First both of my legs go back on your head, and whatever you want, yeah baby I bet it comes true.”

21. Often The Weeknd

Baby I can make that p*ssy rain, often.”

22. Dangerous Woman Ariana Grande

All that you got, skin to skin, oh my God, don’t you stop, boy.”

23. Wednesday Night Interlude Drake

You and I got options bae but name another woman, ain’t no other woman that should come for me when I’m lonely.”

24. Off to the Races Lana Del Rey

I’m crazy, baby, I need you to come here and save me. I’m your little scarlet, starlet, singing in the garden, kiss me on my open mouth. Ready for you.”

25. Live Forever Zayn, Taylor Swift

“I don’t wanna live forever, cause I know I’ll be livin’ in vain. And I don’t wanna fit wherever, I just wanna keep callin’ your name.”

26. Adore You Miley Cyrus

“I love lyin’ next to you, I could do this for eternity.”

27. Take Me To Church Hozier

My church offers no absolutes. She tells me ‘worship in the bedroom.’ The only heaven I’ll be sent to, is when I’m alone with you. I was born sick, but I love it. Command me to be well, amen.”

28. Hey Mama David Guetta, Nicki Minaj, Afrojack

Beating my drum like dum di di day, I like the dirty rhythm you play. I wanna hear you callin’ my name like hey mama mama, hey mama”

29. High for This The Weeknd

You don’t know what’s in store, but you know what you’re here for. Close your eyes, lay yourself beside me, hold tight for this ride.”


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30. Rocket Beyonce

“Hold me ’til I scream for air to breathe. Don’t wash over me until my well runs dry. Send all your sins all over me, babe.”

31. Straight Up and Down Bruno Mars

Ooh, I know exactly what is on your mind. Ooh baby, we gon’ have some fun tonight.”

32. Cologne Selena Gomez

“Every second here without you, I pretend we’re skin to skin. Every single breath reminds me that you never, ever left. And every time I think about you, I can feel my hand give in.”

33. Bordersz Zayn

So take it off, let’s break down all of our walls. Right now I wanna see it all. I don’t wanna cool off, so let’s cross the lines we lost.”

34. Florida Kilos Lana Del Rey

“I feel you, pretty baby, feel me. Turn it up hot, lovin’ you is free. I like it down, like it down way low, but you already know that, you already know.”

35. Shape of You Ed Sheeran

Girl you know I want your love, your love was handmade for somebody like me. Come on now follow my lead.”

36. Playing Dangerous Lana Del Rey

The flames are getting higher, so’s my desire. It’s kind of exciting, don’t you think? Then suddenly, he’s un-cuffing me.”

37. Marvin’s Room Drake

F*ck that n*gga that you love so bad, I know you still think about the times we had. F*ck that n*gga that you think you found. And since you picked up I know he’s not around.”

38. Feel So Close Calvin Harris

Your love pours down on me, surrounds me like a waterfall.”

39. What You Need The Weeknd

“Ain’t no one gon’ stop us, ain’t no one gon’ stop us. And I’mma give you girl, what you feel.”


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40. The Way Ariana Grande

“You give me that kinda somethin, want it all the time, need it every day.”

41. Wrong Zayn and Kehlani

“Clothes off ’cause she’s so soft, this ain’t a fair fight. I wanna shed light on this subject, I’ll get her wetter than ever. Four letters is never the question she like when I’m messy, I like when she’s undressing.”

42. Freak Lana Del Rey

We could slow dance to rock music, kiss while we do it, talk ’til we both turn blue. Baby if you wanna leave, come to California, be a freak like me.”

43. Sweater Weather The Neighborhood

Touch my neck, and I’ll touch yours, you in those little high-waisted shorts”

44. Outta My Hands Selena Gomez

They say you shouldn’t sleep with someone crazier than you. No one’s crazier than you, but you’re so irresistible that I had to break the rules. Your temper can be sexy, I love when you hate me.”

45. Best I Ever Had Drake

She call me the referee ’cause I be so official. My shirt ain’t got no stripes but I can make your p*ssy whistle.”

46. Haunted Beyonce

My haunted lungs, ghost in the sheets. I know if I’m haunting you, you must be haunting me.”

47. You & the 6 Drake

Even one day with us is the time of a life. We do things people pay to document.”

48. Cola (P*ssy) Lana Del Rey

My p*ssy tastes like Pepsi Cola, my eyes are wide like cherry pies. I got a taste for men who’re older, it’s always been so it’s no surprise.”

49. Wicked Games The Weeknd

Bring your love baby I could bring my shame…bring your body baby, I could bring you fame.”


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50. Body Electric Lana Del Rey

We get down every Friday night, dancing and grinding in the pale moonlight. Grand Ole Opry, we’re feelin’ alright, Mary prays the rosary for my broken mind.”

51. The Morning The Weeknd

“Push it through the limit, push it through the pain, I push it for the pleasure like a virgin to the game.” 

52. Body Heat Selena Gomez

I’m going in, I’m ready to surrender. Like a diamond, I need a little pressure. So press me down til I scream, if you’re the flame, I’m kerosene, I’m burning up, baby.”

53. Party & The After Party The Weeknd

Girl pick up them shoes, I’ll race your ass up on them stairs. Just grab a room I swear no one will interfere.”

54. Bang Bang Jessie J, Nicki Minaj, Ariana Grande

See anybody could be bad to you, you need a good girl to blow your mind.”

55. Cockiness Rihanna

“Suck my cockiness, lick my persuasion. Eat my words and then swallow your pride down, down.”

56. This Is What You Came For Calvin Harris

“We say nothin’ more than we need. I say ‘your place’ when we leave.”

57. True Disaster Tove Lo

“Pretty girls, they like it fancy but you don’t keep it clean. We get dirty and we go hard, some things we don’t mean.”

58. Neighbors Know My Name Trey Songs

“I bet the neighbors know my name, way you screamin’ scratchin’ yellin'”

59. Work Rihanna

“You need to get done, done, done, done at work, come over. We just need to slow the motion. Don’t give that away to no one.”


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60. Climax Usher

“Going nowhere fast. We’ve reached the climax. We’re together, now we’re undone”

61. Suga Mama Beyonce

“Baby what you want me to buy? My accountant’s waiting on the phone. Just the thought of making love to you…”

 62. Young & Dumb Cigarettes After Sex

“Well I knew full well that you are the patron saint of sucking cock. Senorita, you’re a cheater. Well, so am I.”

63. Birthday Sex Jeremih

“Just tell me how you want your gift, girl.”

64. Adore Ariana Grande/Cashmere Cat

“You got me screaming my my my ma-ma my my and then I’m like, oh, your love…”

65. Pony Ginuwine

“If you’re horny, let’s do it. Ride it, my pony. My saddle’s waiting. Come and jump on it.”

66. Naughty Girl Beyonce

“I’m feelin’ sexy. I wanna hear you say my name boy. If you can reach me, you can feel my burning flame”

67. Thinking About You Frank Ocean

“How could I forget how you feel…’

68. Hands on Me Ariana Grande

“Trembling when you touch.. Rush is racing, body baking. Picture me and you making, making sweet love. Baby, give it to me.”

69. Love Me Harder The Weeknd and Ariana Grande

“Tell me something I need to know, then take my breath and never let it go. If you just let me invade your space, I’ll take the pleasure, take it with the pain.”

70. Loft Music The Weeknd

“So, baby, take your clothes off. A chance like this, you may never get to show off, show off, show off”


Author

I'm Nicole, and I've always known that I was meant to be a blogger. I have two fails under my belt and am working hard to make the third time a charm with my newest endeavor, Uninspired. I'm a grad student in marriage and family therapy, but I also love creative writing, cooking and baking, reading, and DIY, which all get to shine in this little lifestyle blog of mine.

19 Comments

  1. omg I saw that SAME article on snapchat!! I was surprised…there’s so many stupid things they could’ve mentioned, but everybody loves music! You listed some awesome songs that I’d def have to agree with!

    • Right?! What a weird thing to hate about hooking up! I’m sure there are a lot of people out there who don’t like it, but I wouldn’t have thought it would be enough to write an article about it like it’s something that has to stop immediately. Thanks for your comment, and glad you like some of the songs!

    • Thanks Jordyn! This post was so fun to write, so I’m glad people aren’t too weirded out by it! 🙂

  2. Ooh! That sounds like an amazing playlist. Gonna try them out 😉 Why does this author think only guys are playing music during sex. Hahahha

    • I know, right?? I always feel more comfortable when there’s something going on in the background, and TV can be kind of dangerous because they could say or do something reeeaally un-sexy lol. Music is perfect, especially when you know the playlist was made for exactly this! Thanks for your comment!

    • If you take it on for yourself, write a post about how it goes! 🙂 I’d love to read that! Thanks for your comment!

  3. Oh my God I lost it when I read your guesses for what men need to stop doing! Also, after watching Pitch Perfect last night, I kept looking for Titanium on the list! “It really builds…” – Brittany Snow

    • Ooooh that’s a good one! Maybe I’ll update this post in the future if readers come up with more suggestions! Thanks for the comment, Kelly!

  4. While I love the idea of a sex playlist, I’m dismayed that you would have so much Lana Del Rey and NOT ONE Marvin Gaye

    • Haha fair point! I forgot all about him and his reputation for romance. What songs of his would you add?

      • Diana Sherman Reply

        “Lets Get It” On is the best Marvin Gay song. I’ve had several sex tapes over several years. The’re really nice to have. No surprises. Also I made tapes for my moods. When down and out I usually listen to sad songs like many Match Box 20 songs are. I guess to cry. When I need to get moving I listen to my hiphop tape with only really good beats on them.

        • I can’t believe I didn’t put any Marvin Gaye! I’ll definitely have to add this song in at least. And I have playlists on my phone like that, too! It’s always great to have some go-to songs for when you’re feeling certain things 🙂 Thanks for your comment!

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